An Equal And One Nation

Natalie Shobana Ambrose (27 September, 2009 - theSun)

A beautiful little bug was hanging tight to my windscreen. I only noticed it at the traffic lights. Holding on for dear life this bug got off at my stop quite a distance from his usual route I’m sure.
It might have taken him at least a year of flying hours to get that far. That was a successful migration I thought, perhaps he needed a change or some bigger bug was telling him what to do all the time and he’d had enough.

Perhaps the other side of the cable bridge might just be offering him a better life. He might even be having a little Merdeka celebration of his own with other migrant bugs.
We’re celebrating a freedom from a colonial past – 52 years of independence. A colonial past that built us good schools, set up a respectable education system, and left us with an admirable constitution embracing all migrants.

So here we are celebrating 52 years of that independence.
Maybe to some, Merdeka might mean a much needed public holiday to sleep in, some nice fireworks and a shorter work week.

Though the foundation of our Merdeka celebration is a political independence from a “big bully”, have we really reached political independence or are we still being governed by a big bully with a different façade?

Sometimes we ourselves can be our own worst enemy. To each ethnic group Merdeka carries a different meaning and I wonder what Merdeka means to the original people or directly translated orang asli of this land we call home and what Merdeka means to the rest of us migrants.
Another question that recurs, is how long will we remain migrants?

If we are to remain migrants the rest of our lives, would that mean we are to apologise for our talents, abilities and capabilities that were nurtured by the land we now live in?

If we love the country enough to succeed, does that make us any less Malaysian because generations before us migrated to the land for a better life?
How many more generations would need to pass before we are equal?
There are many countries that boast multiculturalism and there are many countries welcoming talent not based on ethnicity but pure merit.

Where do we fare?

Are we shooing our talent to these lands because of colour bias and losing our investments because of a lack of fairness, shooting ourselves in the foot.
Countries like America are testimony of migrant success in some ways. I wonder how Madeleine Albright would have fared in a system such as ours? Would she of Czechoslovakian birth and upbringing be able to be the foreign minister of a foreign land?

Perhaps not.

Or Fareed Zakaria an India-born Muslim who went to university in America and now has a long impressive list of positions including editor of Newsweek International.

Let’s not forget the Austrian, Arnold Schwarzenegger, now governor of California, all contributing to the betterment of the foreign land that welcomed them.

My next question is would Jimmy Choo have been taken seriously and become a world famous designer if he stayed in Malaysia?

Perhaps not.
I would like to live in a land of opportunity… a place where my success is based on merit, abilities, capabilities and not just my good looks.

Where talent supersedes racial profiling and my ethnic background adds texture to the colour of the nation.

A conversation with a Malaysian who has been living in a foreign land for almost 20 years ended like this – “At the end of the day, I would rather be a second class citizen in a foreign land because of a decision I made, than to be a third class citizen in the place I call home.”
I’m very grateful for the opportunities I’ve had and the different races that make up my family of friends.

Surely something can be done about losing talent, so that when we think about Malaysia and what Merdeka means to us, it will also mean a land where all are embraced, equal and a one nation.

Natalie has been watching too many animation movies to think that bugs have thoughts and feelings.. Happy Merdeka Malaysia!
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Tell Me What You Eat

Natalie Shobana Ambrose (13th September, 2009 - theSun)

August is a month of birthdays in our family. It starts with my grandma’s and ends with my sister and nephew. I was looking forward to the cake on Sunday in celebration of Ammachi’s 91st birthday.

Her secret to long life? Faith, cold showers and cola everyday. What? Cola? Yes you read correctly, cola that starts with a C and not a P (I’ve not been paid to advertise). At first when she started this habit years ago, it concerned her children but they came to a realization, that at her age, why argue?

Another realization on Sunday was that though our family has shrunk due to migration, we all were eating less and had to take home leftovers. I took home cake! But as a family, we were careful with what we ate.

Some of us live to eat and some eat to live. But we all can’t afford to do either/ or – for we’d end up sick either way. While some drink a concoction of bitter gourd and other yummy mixtures to lower sugar levels, I’m told a glass of red wine is good for you, but yesterday read that it causes cancer.

It gets a little all too confusing. One day nuts are good for you the next they will kill you? Yes if you choke on them. Today dairy is good for you and the next thing you know once you’ve stocked up on the yogurt, milk and cheese, you read that women in China don’t eat diary and this reduces their risk of cancer. And out goes the dairy.

Chocolate is a good antioxidant but causes pimples and have you heard that soya beans are good for you. And after you’ve changed your diet to be soya-filled, you find out that it’ not so good for you.

But I guess each generation has its confusions. I saw some advertisements from the 30’s with a happy family on it with the bold words “They’re happy because they eat lard”. And I burst out laughing!

But not as much as when I read a cigarette advert that has a picture of a guy blowing smoke at a woman’s face and the caption says “Blow in her face and she’ll follow you anywhere” More like nowhere I thought. But I bet it wasn’t funny back then. It was cool or the done thing.

The ‘in’ thing now is to go green- no plastic bags. But what about the food we eat and the packaging it comes in? Diets across the world have changed. It’s great to have a more diverse buffet but that extra helping of meat might not just be costing your arteries but hurting the earth.

The UN advises that we should try and adopt a meat free day to curb global warming. Former Beatle, Paul McCartney is pushing for meat-free Mondays to tackle climate change.

With the knowledge that meat causes 18% of global warming, we might want to think about what we put in our mouths.

As our diets change, we should start thinking how this affects our environment. Maybe giving up meat is hard but cutting down might be an option?

Though I believe that everything is permissible, it might not be beneficial. So perhaps cut out the lard, add more greens, get on the stair master and go for the run.

My theory is that everything in moderation because I can’t imagine life without that little bit of chocolate, cookies or ice-cream. Life wouldn’t be as fun without the pleasure of eating.

As I reached out for my second slice of cake, I remembered a saying my friend Nick once repeated to me with a cheeky smile “a moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips, Natalie”.

So as I try to loose the lifetime on my hips, I ponder on the phrase “you are what you eat” but I’m glad my grandma is not a coke bottle.


Natalie might start looking like cookies, cake and ice-cream if she becomes what she eats.
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